The Relationships Rehab Report – Repairing a Broken Relationship (Xtreme Skills for Busy People)
The Relationships Rehab Report - Repairing a Broken Relationship (Xtreme Skills for Busy People)
Most people can deal with challenge with one hand tied behind their back, but when it comes to relationship challenges, we can be extremely naive.
Relationships can be hard work. Usually not at first, but, to avoid mediocrity and survival mode, which is what most people call âgood,â relationships need investment. And thatâs where commitment comes in.
For many people this effort comes after a harsh reminder that, once again, theyâve slipped up, forgotten, dropped into complacency or just been plain ignorant of the needs of their partner.
Itâs similar to running a car and doing maintenance only when something goes wrong. Then the odds are that the car will clap out about five thousand miles from the nearest gas station. Relationships are identical.
If left to their own devices, relationships seem to gradually fizzle into mediocrity, or friendship as people try to explain. âWeâre the best of friends.â So, this is it? We marry our best friend?
More than fifty percent of people in relationships have affairs. And that includes the morally righteous religious fanatics. Whatâs more surprising is that people stay on afterward. âOh, darling, Iâll never do it again...â Rubbish.
Friendship relationships are fantastic. However, the sexual intimacy which the average human being craves doesnât come from going fishing with a mate. Nor does it get fully quenched in self pleasuring. We are born to bonk and if itâs missing in our relationship, weâll wander in some way or another.
The core of these issues comes from poor quality control in relationship.
No Excuses
When the standards drop, someone needs to go to the highest hill in the neighbourhood and scream, âweâre not doing it any more.â At least that will draw attention to the issue and most probably the core issues underlying it.
I hear all the excuses. âoh, heâs stressed at work.â or âOh, sheâs hormonal.â Hello, wake up and smell the roses. There are twenty million of those excuses. The bottom line is the love has become a desert and thereâs no water within miles.
Sex starts with gratitude. If weâre looking at our new love across the table and talking about Tiger Woods winning the golf, and weâre thankful for each other, then itâs an erotic moment.
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