Saturday, February 26, 2011

The Relationships Rehab Report – Repairing a Broken Relationship (Xtreme Skills for Busy People)



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The Relationships Rehab Report - Repairing a Broken Relationship (Xtreme Skills for Busy People)





Most people can deal with challenge with one hand tied behind their back, but when it comes to relationship challenges, we can be extremely naive.

Relationships can be hard work. Usually not at first, but, to avoid mediocrity and survival mode, which is what most people call “good,” relationships need investment. And that’s where commitment comes in.

For many people this effort comes after a harsh reminder that, once again, they’ve slipped up, forgotten, dropped into complacency or just been plain ignorant of the needs of their partner.

It’s similar to running a car and doing maintenance only when something goes wrong. Then the odds are that the car will clap out about five thousand miles from the nearest gas station. Relationships are identical.

If left to their own devices, relationships seem to gradually fizzle into mediocrity, or friendship as people try to explain. “We’re the best of friends.” So, this is it? We marry our best friend?

More than fifty percent of people in relationships have affairs. And that includes the morally righteous religious fanatics. What’s more surprising is that people stay on afterward. “Oh, darling, I’ll never do it again...” Rubbish.

Friendship relationships are fantastic. However, the sexual intimacy which the average human being craves doesn’t come from going fishing with a mate. Nor does it get fully quenched in self pleasuring. We are born to bonk and if it’s missing in our relationship, we’ll wander in some way or another.

The core of these issues comes from poor quality control in relationship.

No Excuses

When the standards drop, someone needs to go to the highest hill in the neighbourhood and scream, “we’re not doing it any more.” At least that will draw attention to the issue and most probably the core issues underlying it.
I hear all the excuses. “oh, he’s stressed at work.” or “Oh, she’s hormonal.” Hello, wake up and smell the roses. There are twenty million of those excuses. The bottom line is the love has become a desert and there’s no water within miles.

Sex starts with gratitude. If we’re looking at our new love across the table and talking about Tiger Woods winning the golf, and we’re thankful for each other, then it’s an erotic moment.










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